Hazel
PS I need to spend on some Tildas and some other things to cheer myself up - and I'm sure that Eric will agree. (So, no pressure, Richard, but hurry up with that website update).

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My sister has let me know that my other sister has named me as the prime suspect for taking lots of things from her house. She had just been on the phone to me
asking if I would check through her bills for her when I next go! She was as nice as pie and asked how I was and if I was feeling better. When my sister said
"Oh, I think you are mistaken, you admit you are getting forgetful" sister A. went berserk and put the phone down on her. I didn't go to her
house yesterday so that she couldn't infer that I had taken anything (which she has done before as you all know). She came here for lunch and thoroughly
enjoyed it. I'm not answering the phone to her today because I wouldn't be able to contain myself - I'll let the answerphone cope. She's my
sister and I feel so sorry for her but I just need a complete break. The OT has been this week and is coming again next week with a colleague so I hope they
decide that she needs permanent care. My sister and I are both getting too old to cope with her as well as look after our own homes. I know that some people
with dementia are sweet and loveable but unfortunately this is not the case here.
Hazel
PS I need to spend on some Tildas and some other things to cheer myself up - and I'm sure that Eric will agree. (So, no pressure, Richard, but hurry up with that website update).
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Hazel I am so sorry that you are having to go through this. I hope things work out for you soon.
I wholeheartedly agree with you that the purchasing of goods out of Joanna's shop will help soothe you, especially the Tilda stamps. Take care Hazel. Hugs. Lyn x |
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Oh Hazel - you really could do with some (((((hugs))))) couldn't you.
It's cold comfort that your sister doesn't really understand the implications of her actions isn't it. I hope the Occupational Therapist gives you and your other sister the answers you so clearly need. Thinking of you and sending you strength. Donna X |
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Sending you some more ((((((HUGS)))))) Hazel, I agree, do some craft buying to take your mind of it all!
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Oh Hazel, I'm so sorry you having such a difficult time with your sister. I'm sure no one believes your sisters accusations but I can understand how
hurtful it must be when you are doing your best for her.
Hope you can put it out of your mind and take a break just for a little while. Julie x |
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Hazel I've pm'd you
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Hazel, I know it can be so upsetting when people you love do that to you, Dementia is a terrible illness , my own mother had it and I
have worked with dementia patients so i can understand how you feel.............. Ann d xxx |
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Hi hazel hope you have a relaxing day crafting and i do feel for you as my family looked after my grandma for 5 years and there were very trying days i hope
that the ot comes up with some practial solutions for you love and big hugs jackie xxx
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Hazel, I'm so sorry, and hope that a reasonable solution to your sister's care can be agreed to soon.
Lavender XX |
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Twinkliedoes |
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Sending you some special Hugs Hazel. I hope the O.T. can help you and your other sister.
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I've no answer to your problems but I send you my best wishes. Hope your sister gets the care she needs.
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oh hazel how awful for you, both you and your sister are doing an amazing job of coping with such a difficult situation.
hugs to you both, hope the OT can sort your sister out with the care she needs. go spend n enjoy, your strength is an inspiration to us all. chell x |
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Sending loads of hugs Hazel. Hope you can get the situation sorted.
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I do so hope the situation is sorted soon Hazel. You and your other sister are doing an amazing job but your own health and sanity are important too!!!
((((BIG HUGS)))) Nina x |
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My sympathies go out to you, I looked after my grandad for 10 months after he was diagnosed with dementia, he would make all sorts of accusations, he didn't really mean them and neither does your sister, I know that doesn't make you feel better at the moment, and believe me I know exactly how hard work it is looking after someone in this situation. We have found a lovely specialist home for my grandad now and hes very happy there. Do you have a social worker and CPN that can offer advice and help? |
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Hazel, you are a very special lady, having been lucky enough to meet you and even spend time with you on your birthday, I'm positive that after all you
have gone through this past year, this will go to the back of the queue pretty quickly..especially if you get a Tilda or two... Just to take your mind off
things you understand....
I had 2 sisters and unfortunately one of them passed away just over 2 years ago.. now I treasure the remaining one..Even if she does tell folk she isn't my family love and hugs Ida xx |
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Dear Hazel sending you lots of hugs and hope things get sorted soon Love May
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Anne06 |
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aawww Hazel sending {{{{{{{{wee warm cosy hugs}}}}}}} your way
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Sending you some ((((((((Hugs)))))))) Hazel and think you deserve some new crafting goods. Take care.
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Oh Hazel, some more ((((hugs)))) from me, i used to work with people with dementia, and it is awful for the families, many's the time i have been a
shoulder to cry on, because of the way this awful illness affects their relatives. Keep your chin up girl, from what i've read on this forum, you have been
an absolute brick.
Jay. xx |
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Hazel sending you lots of {{{{HUGS}}}} ok maybe Eric can have a couple, this is such a stressfull situation for you, I can only symapthise my dads sister has
dementia as did his brother. Make sure you keep having "me" time.
Keren x |
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