Thank you all for your kind words. Hope you wont mind but I intend to show her what you have all said. I think it will be a comfort and the tips may spur her
on to get him.At the moment she is getting her head straight and relaxing a bit with getting her garden sorted. She has also been to the employment office and
if she sees anything will tell them why she is job hunting even though she still has a job. She has also decided to stay off at least until the end of the
month but I hope to persuade her to never ever go back. At least I know the longer she is off there is less chance that she will go back. Just hope a new job
will turn up before she weakens. Told her that her mental health is just as important as physical. So Bless You All. XOXOXOXO
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Posts: 10084 (15/07/2008 22:55:29) |
I do hope she gets sorted soon as this is an awful situation to be in - lots of great advice here
Take care and positive thoughts to your Daughter Suzanne |
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Posts: 188 (15/07/2008 23:01:44) |
My response to a supervisor who bullied me was - Is there something I have or something I do that makes you feel threatened, if not then why are you bullying
me? She was stunned into silence and after that avoided me at all cost. She doesn't know the courage it took for me to say it but I had been pushed to
the limit. A short time after that I was fortunate enough to find another job and took great satisfaction in naming her as my sole reason for leaving. I came
accross her years later and was in a position to sit in on her interview, yes you guessed it - I asked her what her view was of bullying in the workplace.
I do wish your daughter well and hope she finds a happier place to work. Lesley xx |
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Posts: 414 (16/07/2008 11:44:33) |
I have been in here situation twice!(and I am still on sick leave ,( two years now, but I work someplace else now halftime and love it) from the last one.
And tell her, whatever she does, DO NOT GO BACK TO HER OLD JOB! It will be very scary for her to let go, but that boss will never change. It is a power thing, and he has probably found someone else now to terrorize. But if he hasnt, and she returns, it will go back to the same thing again...and that can really send her into a deep depression. But she should ask for outside help to sort out her work situation, so she can go to the employment agency with a clean sleet. I am sorry I dont know how it works in England.....but for her own peace of mind and health, dont go back! Eva xx |
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Posts: 378 (17/07/2008 11:27:49) |
Thank you so much for all your kind thought. I am taking this further. I have contacted the national bullying help line and they have told me to send in a
grievance letter about this man. If my doctor agrees to sign me off I shall be looking for a new job and will make sure that he is named as my reason for
leaving. Again, thank you all. You have really made me feel like I am not alone.
Cassies daughter Alison xx |
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Posts: 3447 (17/07/2008 11:37:05) |
Good luck in finding a better job Alison.
I think many of us have probably been in a similar position at some time. Hold you head up high. You deserve to be treated in a fair and proper manner. Get your own back by moving on and being happy. Bullies are rarely contented people deep down. Best of luck Fran.x |
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Posts: 3388 (17/07/2008 11:47:35) |
Can sympathize entirely with this. My DIL is currently off work through bullying at her school.
This sort of thing is becoming more and more the 'norn'! Jan x |
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Posts: 4989 (17/07/2008 11:49:53) |
can she not record him i would i know you are not ment to but i would have a little recorder and record him i would have it on when i am alone and hes about
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