. I spent
ages trawling on the net looking at inspection reports etc. How to proceed is my question. Do I just knock on the front door and expect to be invited in to
have a look or should I make an appointment or what??? Any advice welcome. Tess x

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jontim |
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Well the search for a home for Mum starts in earnest on Monday
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ages trawling on the net looking at inspection reports etc. How to proceed is my question. Do I just knock on the front door and expect to be invited in to
have a look or should I make an appointment or what??? Any advice welcome. Tess x
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pixiehouse |
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As an ex care assistant i would advise that you phoned the homes you are interested in and make an appointment to view,then the Manager of the home will be
abole to show you around the home and answer any questions you might have
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leanpaul |
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Knock on the door that way you will see the true way the home is run, if you are not invited in but told to make an appointment I would think about what they
are trying
to prevent you from seeing. Having worked in care homes in the past when you do find a home for your mum, I would advice unannounced visits to see your mother at different times of the day especially mealtimes to begin with that way you can assure your self that she is being well cared for. Pauline x |
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Recioy |
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Hi Tess, Most homes don't mind you knocking on their door (at least the one my mum is in doesn't) but like Wendy said, it would be nice to telephone
first. I wish you all the best in finding the right one for your dear mum, and please don't feel guilty because in the end it will be the best thing for
both of you.
Adele x |
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KayinDevon |
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As a nurse I would say knock on the door and look around but, do remember that you may smell something unpleasant that may just have been dealt with and it is
only a problem if its a smell that is there all the time (if you know what I mean!). Some patients with colostomies for instance create some awful aromas
despite great care! Urine smells are another thing. Concentrated urine smells bad and you get that where the patients are not offered enough to drink. Very
rarely this is because people are trying to prevent having to change pads as often but often its just not thought about. With enough fluid a person will pass
urine less frequently but at a better volume which means that they get less infections as well as it not smelling as bad. Urine infections are a big risk for
elderly as it is! and can be very serious. Look for jugs of water/squash around, look for cleanliness of staff and enough staff that can be understood by
elderly people with often poor hearing. I would also say look for happy residents! Just a few thoughts....
Kay (a palliative care nurse) |
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