Oh dear, that was a bit of a setback wasn't it? They're right to do it, though, really aren't they? You don't want to put yourself back even further. As for teenagers moaning it'll help them learn for when they get their own places. I always had three rules in here. You make the mess you clean it up, you help eat it so you help carry it and, once they started earning or getting money, you want to use that you'll help pay for it. I hope you can get back to the life you want very soon. Take care.