curly wrote:
We got married in a registry office, my dress was something I could wear again, as was OH suit.  No bridesdmaids.  The reception was held at MiL's house and we did all the catering between us and bought the wine and beer.

We had a wonderful day with everyone we loved with us.  To be honest, I  can't see why people want to spend thousands on a wedding especially when it leaves them in debt


I couldn't agree more. Ours was similar, except we went to a restaurant for a family dinner. 9 guests at the wedding, suit bought the day before, etc. we've been very happily married for well over 20 years. I can't understand why people want a big wedding - cant help but think some people see no further than the wedding day.