My daughter and S-i-L's friends asked people to pay for their own meals instead of buying a wedding present. Fair enough...   But the wedding was held in Edinburgh meaning that all guests had to travel, either by train or car and pay for hotel accommodation. To add insult to injury, the happy couple went off to bed early without paying for THEIR meal, the cost of which was added on to everyone else's bill!!!! As the saying goes, "with friends like these, who needs enemies?"     smiley: ohwell    Sylvia x