Thank u ladies for your well wishes, unfortunately nothing can be done for my lovely man, he is now totally dependent on me and is like a 2 year old he cannot speak now either so communication is very hard but I love him and we get there in our own way ha ha, the only good thing in all this is he is not aware of how he is, again many thanks for your thoughts, I will keep popping on to see how u are all going when I can

Pauline