I'm not at all proud of myself at times but the first time my sons heard bad language, and witnessed things children should not see, was directed at me by their father. I'm still sorry to this day that I didn't manage to remove it completely from their lives after his departure but I can say I always tried to be the best I could be. I admit that I failed abysmally some days. I couldn't disown my sons for the use of bad language when I'm partly to blame for them knowing any. I'd be a hypocrite if I did that. I would only disown them for something I thought too heinous for me to comprehend.