My ex-husband was in the Falklands and Gulf (part 1) he was changed for ever. My daughter and son are both serving abroad and our grandson has just returned from his second tour of duty in Basra. They all accept the risks and give without thinking, my ex was changed emotionaly and mentally, seeking help was frowned apon and as a result he became a none too pleasant person. So very sad. May, we shall never stop worrying about them and praying for their safety and that of their commrades