Oh dear, it must be truly awfull for you at the moment, and such a shame that your OH can't be a bit more understanding, I don't suffer from Tinitus, but do get the occasional 'hissing', then a very loud piercing 'whistle or ringing' it usually dissapears after a fww minutes though, so I think I'm one of the lucky ones.

Hope things 'die down' a wee bit for you soon, and you manage to cope a bit better,

Take care

Jackie x