As family members have grown we do charity donations every year now so it is less worrying about what to buy and less wrapping. We get our gifts from Plan International where we have our sponsored children and buy things like planting trees, building wells etc. Most people appreciate it (okay some don't as they can be a bit materialistic) and we feel we are doing our bit and not just wasting money.

Younger family members still get a present as do immediate family.