I think all these situations are awful, especially when you can't trust your own postie. It used to be lovely when we had "long standing" postmen (and women) who always came regularly, because they eventually get to know who you are. Now there are so many "temps" you never know who is delivering. They're not going forwards, they're definitely going bnackwards. I wrote in a post last week, I'd love to know who is sitting on all our parcels and letters that go missing, they don't disappear into thin air do they? I think there's people out there who have a nice little sideline going with flogging other peoples property!