Oh I'm so sorry to hear that Eileen has passed away, I realised that she was in her 80's but han't heard about her and what a wonderful lady to have made provision for Ian....it puts me too shame as the thought of soughting something out for our DD, who will be 40 next year, fills me me dread....but I know something has to be done and pretty soon as things are already getting hard for us.. If she could live where she goes to respite I would be a happy bunny as she loves it there..but it's not possible.
God Bless Eileen and I hope Ian is content .

love Sheila xx