Will be thinking of you especially on Monday Carol XX

It's lovely that your sister-in-law is having her wishes carried out. A full funeral etc can be good for those left behind I know, in terms of their grieving process, but so many times there is discord over what the arrangements should be with various family members feeling so differently - it's such an intense time - so it's always seemed so appropriate to me when the deceased takes the decisions away by prearranging things. A dear family friend of ours died a few years ago and had known she was dying so made all the arrangements and even designed the orders of service etc - it made everything seem so much more personal knowing that the decisions had been hers.

Big hugs,
Lavender
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