I have left instructions with my solicitor, Ian & Bob and the Undertaker that there is to be absolutely NO fuss, no service, no memorial. I have chosen this for the very simple reason that my darling John's funeral was a farce, the squabbling over his wishes caused untold pain. My family is very fragmented with soandso not talking to suchandsuch and so it goes on, a dignified funeral just wouldn't be possible. I know this will cause some people pain but in the long run it really is the best way.

I shall be with you in thought Carol and holding out a cyber hand to you
xxx